Atlas, Baby showers and the Mets!

There are certain urban landmarks that define a feeling for that city. These are but a few that I grew up with. When at the movies and it's filmed in New York(Manhattan), I get so excited that it triggers a bout of homesickness. The same is true when I'm in New York and I see Cozumel in the window of a travel agency. Standing next to a skyscraper and looking up is an amazing feeling. I didn't have this sensation when I lived there. It wasn't until I moved to Cozumel that the city took on an almost bigger than life aura. It dissipates quickly, so it's vital to experience it while you have the chance. I hear many people say New York's a cold place and I laugh. This is because these poor souls don't understand that New Yorkers(real New Yorkers)are dealing with an insane amount of sensory input. In order to function and enjoy their day they must selectively pick and chose what to pay attention to. If they didn't they would be like a centipede trying to figure out which foot to place in front of the other. So the next time you encounter a New Yorker who ignores you or doesn't stop to say hello, realize that you may not be on their designated radar or they have a.d.d.. To be completely honest most of us are islands unto ourselves and only interact when there's an emergency or a celebration. Like when the Mets won the world series or a blackout. If you're lucky enough to be around during one of these events, you'll see us act as a family. Opening our doors , sharing food, checking on those who live alone. We will have spontaneous parties in the streets and rooftops. You'll feel like you walked into a family reunion. The closest thing I've experienced to this were when the hurricanes hit Cozumel. I find it fascinating that for years you may not have spoken to your neighbor , but if one of these events come to pass you instantly have a major source of help and support. It's almost like when it's over we look at each other and say "See you next disaster, take care." I was at a baby shower today that allowed men. A revolutionary idea in itself, the father played a part and should receive community recognition as well. I am not by nature a social person, in fact I'm intensely personal and private. I find that by writing this blog I'm developing a greater appreciation of friends and neighbors. Please don't take this to mean that I relish my next social gathering. I guess what I'm saying is that if people want to get to know me, they can read this. It can save me numerous hours of small talk.Well it's late and I've run out of gas. Goodnight. Until tomorrow. Jody